Montag, 4. November 2013

Community problems? My point of view on gaijin gyaru community

HI everyone!
Today I just wanted to write about a more serious topic:
The Gaijin Gyaru community!
I've read so many negative things about the community that I really have to say a few things!
1st thing:
Stop blaming the community!
Many girls who are new to gal are scared of secrets and negative statements.
Well that's a fear I can share! I also was scared, when I debuted in gal over one year ago!
BUT it's not okay to say "The community is mean, they will only hurt me and make fun of me!" just because you know there is the possibility that someone can make secrets about you!
If you're not sure about yourself and you're open to constructive criticism you can post in daily_gyaru or in the facebook groups and ask for tips!
I've NEVER had the experience that someone was made fun of, because he wasn't that far!
Many gals try to help you and give you tips and I try to do it aswell!

2nd thing:
If someone tells you nicely how to improve don't get bitchy!
All what we want is to help you! Of course you're maybe just not that good with makeup or hair or anything, but that's what the community is for: HELPING each other!
Personally, I had some really bitchy and rude reactions when I tried to give tips!
I don't think anyone wants to be mean to you or insult you in any way, so don't get angry and try to make it better next time!
It's not a flaw of the community that YOU are not (yet) perfect ^^ (I know it sounds harsh and rude but I just can't find any other words and I am sorry if I hurt somebody with my statements :c)

3rd thing:
So secrets are a main thing why the community seems sooooo bad!
Honestly said I have the feeling that only a FEW people post secrets!
And how can we be sure that they are even part of the community?
The thing is, that we can't be 100% sure who posts this shit about us and the best way is to avoid sites like g_s and do your thing!
I enjoy a calmer life since I don't care about secrets anymore and you should, too!
So PLEASE stop saying that secrets are made from the community! There are also non-gals who could look through the gaijin gyaru tag on tumblr and write something mean! I bet 90% of the gaijin gyarus in the community don't even have time to write secrets!

4th thing:
There are people who don't like you everywhere
Even in school, on work or else where, there are people YOU don't like and people who just don't like you!
Get over it, you can't be everybody's sweetheart!
I, personally just don't like some girls and I don't have any contact with them, that's all!
Even if they would write me I wouldn't be bitchy or anything, maybe I would learn to like them, the more I get to know them ^-^
If someone make you feel like he doesn't like you then just don't pay attention to that person and don't blame the community for it!

My personal experience with the community is good!
I met so many beautiful girls, who I can talk to and who are just lovely sweethearts *^* (especially since I am a part of GALVip *^* It's like a huge family, everyone helps you out *^*)
I think it's not fair to blame the community for this!
Of course there are some negative sides, especially with more famous gals! But it's not like this normally and there are jealous people everywhere :C

Also I just wanted to say thank you to all those lovely people who made my life a little bit sweeter!
I really don't regret getting into gal <3
This post wasn't meant to offend anyone! It's just my view on the GG Community!
Also some examples for a nice and helping community are GYARU LOVERS a german GAL Community and Diamant Rose a french GAL unit!
I think you can see how awesome they support each other ^-^
I just like to think back to meeting some gals a couple of months ago *^*

It was SO much fun!
So that's for it! Just told what I have to tell :D
Hope you have a nice week!!

Sonntag, 3. November 2013

This took FOREVER!

Hi cuties! <3
FINALLY I found time to blog!
I have had a very good time in Italy, where I visited Pisa, Firenze and Viareggio with my class.
We had a small hotel in Montecatini Terme and it was a very nice trip to learn something about Italy *^*
Before I went to Italy, I cut my hair pretty short!
I had to say goodbye to 15 cm of hair due to the damage I got from all the hairdyes :(
Here's a picture of my recent real-hair style:

This was the day I just arrived in Italy after a 14-hours over-night drive in the bus T_T
After Italy I visited my boyfriend for a week and after this my misfortune began...
I received a set of hair extensions that was not the way I thought it would be:
It was so disappointing for me :c
Also the color was way too dark, eventhough I ordered a mid-brown, I got a dark-brown :(
But's something! :D
I could find use of those overpriced, nearly not existing extensions and used them for the trip to the sushi restaurant!
Here's a picture of my makeup and hair this time:

But that's not all!
I bought a ma*rs replica set and a agejo-styled dress, too!
And guess what? The ma*rs replica set was too small for my bust..I just could squeeze them into this little thing XD
Also the dress got lost somewhere and I was really sad because I really really liked it!
Well now I fit into the ma*rs replica set and the dress is already on the way to me again *^*
Of course I had to take pictures of my set yesterday with a lend cam, since mine is broken -.-

That's somehow the news for now!
I will have to work a lot on the GAL VIP Assignment this time as long as I have a good cam!
I would love to blog more often from now on and I will try to take my time for it!
Everyone, have a nice weekend and week!